December 1st, 2024 § Comments Off on Tarot Gift Ideas § permalink
It’s December … the start of the Holiday Gift-Giving Season!
If you have a Tarot enthusiast in your life, or are looking for a gift to give yourself (I’m sure you deserve it) … here’s a list of rather random gift ideas a Tarot reader might like. Or at least I like them all.
And just to be clear, I don’t have any affiliation with any of the outlets linked so I can’t guarantee anything. This is just a list of ideas ….
And of course Tarot decks … but that’s so obvious, I almost didn’t write it. I did, however, come across these shiny foil Rider-Waite-Smith cards while I was searching around. I’ve never seen them before … and there’s a Pink Vintage Glamour RWS deck? Oh my, I think I want these …
November 26th, 2024 § Comments Off on Lessons from the Field – tarot reading in the wild § permalink
These three points become super clear when you regularly read cards for multiple people over the course of a few hours …
There seems to be a daily theme, ie. during a particular session, many of the same cards appear in multiple people’s readings no matter how well the cards are shuffled
People are almost all interested in the same questions … work, health, love
Everyone is looking for validation and hope
So what would the Tarot lesson be? …
Wherever you are, the people around you are likely facing similar issues to what you’re dealing with, and they’re probably concerned about the same type of questions you are. And finally, whether we appear sure of ourselves or not, all of us can use some hope and validation.
With that in mind, let’s try to be good to each other. We can definitely use each other’s help.
July 31st, 2024 § Comments Off on Three Things I Really Like about Reading Cards for Others § permalink
After reading cards now for over thirty years, I’d say that there are three things I especially like about reading for others …
•Getting to help people sort through thoughts and emotions when they’re facing a dilemma or crossroads. When you can help – it’s a real thrill.
•Having sincere, heartfelt conversations with people through the cards – all sorts of different people, with all sorts of different perspectives – friends and strangers, they always teach me something.
•Being reminded through the questions we ask, that we humans are all very similar, with the same hopes, fears, and needs. It helps me love people more.
And of course, I also just really like looking at pictures and talking about what they might mean (which I guess makes it four things I especially like.)
Tarot reading for oneself is fabulous, but Tarot reading for others has its own set of joys.
July 24th, 2024 § Comments Off on Call Me Miss Cleo – the movie § permalink
It looks like a new biopic about Miss Cleo is about to be released, but I just finally watched the last one, Call Me Miss Cleo the other day. It was released by HBO Max back in 2022, but took me a few years to get to.
I had forgotten most of the story surrounding the very shady, at times criminal (or at least civilly actionable) Psychic Readers Network (PRN), but I never forgot Miss Cleo herself … or should I say the character Youree Dell Harris played called Miss Cleo.
And I remember the ads, and how confident Miss Cleo sounded as she (apparently) read for callers in her thick (apparently) Jamaican accent … not that I ever fully believed her. I had started reading cards myself a few years earlier and it felt as if she was doing something completely different than I was.
There was no personal development aspect, no reflections on archetypes, or concepts of spiritual growth, and certainly no nuanced perspectives on any situations being explored … Miss Cleo said it straight (apparently). She was sure who was messing with who, who was cheating, who was good, who thought what and when they thought it, and most importantly, she knew exactly how everything was (apparently) going to turn out.
As it actually turned out, Miss Cleo was just acting (at least in the ads), and PRN had a contract which gave them rights to her image and name (or the Miss Cleo name anyway). For all her notoriety, she didn’t make anything extra from them.
You can watch the film to see what happened to PRN and Youree Dell Harris. Long-story-short though (and a spoiler if you didn’t already know) … Miss Cleo moved on to be a private tarot/psychic reader, and a wedding officiant, she did some other acting work, had a podcast, and became a strong advocate for LGBTQ rights. And it looks like she maintained her Miss Cleo persona until her passing in 2016.
Miss Cleo is definitely a complicated character. On some levels, it seems clear she was a fraud, though I have little doubt that she was a good card reader. But I was also moved by her story, and found her both charismatic and sympathetic, I didn’t actually cry, but I was definitely tearing up towards the end of the film.
All in all, I recommend Call Me Miss Cleo. If you’re interested in this topic, and haven’t had a chance to see it already, take a look.
July 15th, 2024 § Comments Off on Bookmarks § permalink
About 22 years or so ago, when I first opened The Tarot Room, I was looking for ways to advertise. The goal was to try something that wasn’t too expensive, and also not too weird. Ads for Tarot and Psychic readings can be both shady and cringe inducing (though I’m often fond of the graphics and really really want a neon Tarot Reader sign for my window).
But anyway … I decided on bookmarks. Not sure why, other than that I read a lot and always need one myself. They were also fairly cheap. I drew the picture for it myself (a stylized Empress in the RWS vein), and think I spent about $200 to print up 1000 or 2000 copies, I don’t remember exactly. There were a lot. But I liked them, and still had hope.
My next step was to get them distributed around the city. I hired a local postering company to get them into various cafes and bars around town, especially in my neighbourhood. Then I waited.
You’ve probably guessed already … my bookmark idea did not achieve its goals. I got zero business. In fact, I got only one call for all my effort and expense. It was in the middle of the night by some drunk guy (or at least he sounded drunk), asking me if I looked like the woman on the bookmark. I told him that I did not.
There’s no moral to this story, except that maybe bookmarks in bars and cafes are not good advertising tools for Tarot readers, or at least not for me. I’m telling this sad (or is it pathetic) story only because I just came across a dusty box filled with bookmarks … hundreds of them. Anybody want one?